I was shadowing a coaching client in her leadership meeting when I watched this brilliant woman apologize six times in 30 minutes. 1. “Sorry, this might be off-topic, but..." 2. “I'm could be wrong, but what if we..." 3. “Sorry again, I know we're running short on time..." 4. “I don't want to step on anyone's toes, but..." 5. “This is just my opinion, but..." 6. “Sorry if I'm being too pushy..." Her ideas? They were game-changing. Every single one. Here's what I've learned after decades of coaching women leaders: Women are masterful at reading the room and keeping everyone comfortable. It's a superpower. But when we consistently prioritize others' comfort over our own voice, we rob ourselves, and our teams, of our full contribution. The alternative isn't to become aggressive or dismissive. It's to practice “gracious assertion": • Replace "Sorry to interrupt" with "I'd like to add to that" • Replace "This might be stupid, but..." with "Here's another perspective" • Replace "I hope this makes sense" with "Let me know what questions you have" • Replace "I don't want to step on toes" with "I have a different approach" • Replace "This is just my opinion" with "Based on my experience" • Replace "Sorry if I'm being pushy" with "I feel strongly about this because" But how do you know if you're hitting the right note? Ask yourself these three questions: • Am I stating my needs clearly while respecting others' perspectives? (Assertive) • Am I dismissing others' input or bulldozing through objections? (Aggressive) • Am I hinting at what I want instead of directly asking for it? (Passive-aggressive) You can be considerate AND confident. You can make space for others AND take up space yourself. Your comfort matters too. Your voice matters too. Your ideas matter too. And most importantly, YOU matter. @she.shines.inc #Womenleaders #Confidence #selfadvocacy
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A mentee once told me, “I solved the problem before it blew up. But the guy who caused the chaos got praised for ‘handling the crisis.’” That’s when it clicked. We’ve built workplaces that reward firefighters, not architects. Because prevention is invisible. It doesn’t look dramatic. It doesn’t generate applause. It doesn’t make leadership feel like heroes. So the people who quietly keep systems stable, customer complaints low, and processes clean… get labelled as “consistent,” “steady,” or “reliable.” In other words: flat. While the ones who cause the mess, stay loud, rush in at the last minute… get branded as “problem solvers,” “high ownership,” “great under pressure.” This is why many organizations break themselves: 👉 They mistake chaos management for leadership. 👉 They confuse adrenaline with competence. 👉 They glorify urgency instead of design. The people who prevent disasters are never seen. The people who extinguish them get rooms full of applause. And slowly, the quiet builders stop building. They become indifferent. They let things slip not because they’re careless, but because they’re tired of competing with chaos. Here’s what I tell leaders bluntly: If your culture rewards last-minute heroes, you will always live in last-minute emergencies. The real leaders aren’t the ones who put out fires. They’re the ones who built a system where fires never started. 💬 Have you ever watched the loudest crisis managers get rewarded while the quiet stabilizers were ignored? What did it do to the team? #LeadershipTruths #WorkplaceCulture #OrganizationalDesign #HighPerformers #TeamDynamics #MentorshipMatters
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"Woah!” Tomoko-san told me. “It’s so strange. In Japan, we say American culture is egalitarian. But after living in the US for two years, I now see their decision-making is much more hierarchical than ours.” Dirk from Germany confirmed: “Americans pretend they are egalitarian with their open-door policies, first-name basis, and casual dress, but when it comes to decision making - the boss makes the decision and everyone falls in line.” These quotes hit the core of a global leadership truth. Culture shapes two critical dimensions: 1. The Leading scale looks at how much deference or respect is shown to an authority figure. In egalitarian cultures, it’s ok to disagree with the boss even in front of others. It’s ok to email or call people several levels below or above you without putting the boss in copy. In hierarchical cultures, an effort is made to defer to the boss, especially in public, and communication follows the hierarchical chain. 2. The Deciding scale looks at whether we make decisions slowly over time by groups (consensual cultures) or whether decisions are made quickly by individuals (usually the boss) but then may be changed frequently as more information arises (what I call top-down cultures). These two dimensions create four very different leadership styles: 1. Hierarchical and top-down cultures (hello, China, India, Mexico, Russia, and Saudi Arabia) where deference/respect to authority is high and decisions are made by the boss. 2. Hierarchical but consensual decision-making (like Germany and especially Japan) – decisions are made slowly over time by groups, but deference to formal hierarchies is strong. 3. Egalitarian cultures that make quick top-down decisions (enter the United States or Australia), where anyone can speak up, but the boss still calls the final shot. 4. And then Consensual, egalitarian cultures (that's you, Denmark, Netherlands, Norway, and Sweden), where decision-making is slow, inclusive, and everyone’s voice holds weight. Each style is effective on its own. But a lot can go wrong when working across cultures, and these methods collide. Global leadership requires mapping your style to where you are and adapting like your success depends on it. Because it does. So, what quadrant do you lead in? Explore the map of your team here: erinmeyer.com/tools #TheCultureMap #GlobalLeadership #CrossCulturalLeadership #ErinMeyer #CultureMatters #LeadershipTruths
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The micromanager who checks your work 15 times before lunch isn't protecting quality. They're broadcasting their incompetence. I've watched brilliant teams turn into zombies under these managers. People who once solved complex problems now wait for permission to send emails. Engineers who built entire systems now need approval for code comments. Directors who ran divisions now can't order office supplies without three signatures. You know the pattern: 🔥 Morning check-in at 9:00 🔥 "Quick sync" at 10:30 🔥 "Just following up" at noon 🔥 Afternoon "alignment" at 2:00 🔥 End-of-day "status update" at 4:30 🔥 Weekend texts about Monday's priorities They'll tell you it's about "staying connected" or "ensuring alignment." But watch what actually happens. Decision-making speed drops 70%. Innovation dies completely. Your A-players either rebel or leave. The ones who stay learn to perform busy-work theatre - lots of activity, zero progress. The real damage isn't the wasted time. It's what happens to people's brains. When you need permission for everything, you stop thinking. When every decision gets questioned, you stop deciding. When initiative gets punished, you stop trying. The micromanager creates the very incompetence they claim to prevent. And destroy your culture in the process. Because here's what they don't understand: Trust isn't given after people prove themselves. Performance happens BECAUSE you trust them first. The strongest teams I've seen operate on radical trust. Mistakes? Learning opportunities. Bad calls? Part of growth. Failed experiments? Required for innovation. Their managers ask "What do you need?" not "What are you doing?" They review outcomes, not activity logs. They build systems, not surveillance. Your micromanaging competitor is turning their talent into robots while you could be building an army of autonomous problem-solvers. Which organisation wins that fight? #leadership #micromanagement #toxicworkplace #management
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The best leaders don't do it for power. They serve their team first and foremost. That's what Robert Greenleaf meant when he coined the term "Servant Leadership" in 1970. He described a leader that works to support their team and not control them. I didn't know Greenleaf when I started HomeServe. But looking back, the times we grew fastest were the times I stopped trying to control everything and started clearing the path for others. Here's what I've learned about servant leadership after 30+ years scaling a business to £4.1bn. Traditional leaders: - Talk more than listens. - Keep information close. - See leadership as power. - Focus on control and authority. - Measure success by personal results. Servant leaders do the opposite: - Share knowledge freely. - Listen first, speak last. - See leadership as responsibility. - Measure success by team growth. - Focus on support and development. This matters a whole lot when you're trying to scale. There are three traits that define a servant leader. 1. Empathy Get out of the office and spend time where the real work happens. Know your people as individuals, what drives them and what drains them. 2. Humble Admit when you've got something wrong. It earns more trust. Share the praise, take the blame, and move on quickly. 3. Collaborative. Recruit and develop people who can run things better than you can. Treat mentoring and training as seriously as sales and marketing. At HomeServe, I hired people smarter than me and gave them autonomy. I set clear goals, then got out of the way. If you want to become a servant leader, here's how to start. 1. Spend a day each month on the frontline. See what's slowing people down and sort it fast. 2. Start every one-to-one with their agenda, not yours. Ask "What's on your mind and what can I do to help?" 3. Explain the why behind every big decision. People commit more when they understand the reason. 4. Give praise in public, negative feedback in private. Recognition lifts confidence. Correction works best one-to-one. 5. Let others make decisions and back them fully. Trust builds faster through action than through speeches. 6. End every meeting thinking about, "Who needs my help next?" Then act on it, because leadership is service in motion. The real job of a CEO isn't to be the smartest person in the room. It's to make sure your people have what they need to succeed. That's how you build billion-pound businesses. Not by doing everything yourself. But by serving the people who do the work. Share one way you serve your team and why. I'd like to know how you approach leadership. ♻️ Repost to share with other leaders in your network. And for more on how to lead billion-pound businesses, Follow me Richard Harpin.
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You've been told there's one "best" way to lead. That's a lie. The greatest CEOs and founders know a secret: Leadership isn't one-size-fits-all. Here are the 9 leadership styles they actually use: 1. Visionary → Paints the big picture → Inspires long-term thinking 2. Democratic → Values everyone's input → Builds team buy-in 3. Servant → Puts people first → Creates loyalty through service 4. Autocratic → Makes fast decisions → Drives rapid execution 5. Coaching → Develops people's potential → Focuses on growth 6. Transformational → Pushes bold change → Lifts teams to new heights 7. Transactional → Rewards results → Sets clear expectations 8. Laissez-Faire → Gives freedom to experts → Trusts people to deliver 9. Situational → Adapts to what's needed → Reads the room perfectly The truth? Your team doesn't need the "perfect" leader. They need the RIGHT leader for RIGHT NOW. • New team? More coaching. • Crisis mode? Perhaps autocratic. • Creative experts? Try laissez-faire. • Building culture? Consider servant leadership. Great leaders don't stick to one style. They have a toolkit and know when to use each tool. Save this guide. Study these styles. Practice switching between them. Your effectiveness will skyrocket. Your team will thank you. Because the best leaders aren't rigid. They're responsive. Which style do you default to? And which one should you develop next? P.S. Want a PDF of my Leadership Styles Cheat Sheet? Get it free: https://lnkd.in/di6yUKeE ♻️ Repost to help a CEO in your network. Follow Eric Partaker for more leadership insights. — 📢 CEOs, the Earlybird Discount for my October cohort of The Founder & CEO Accelerator just opened. Don’t miss your chance to join early and save: https://lnkd.in/dsuhQqWv
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Great leadership isn't about having all the answers. It's about: Creating an environment where: - Open communication thrives - Every voice is valued - Ideas flow freely Become a leader who truly listens. Encouraging honest dialogue leads to innovation and growth. The benefits of being a leader who listens: - Builds trust and loyalty - Uncovers valuable insights - Leads to better decision-making Leaders do this: 1. Practice active listening: - Give your full attention when others speak - Seek to understand before responding 2. Create psychological safety: - Encourage open dialogue without fear of retribution - Show appreciation for differing viewpoints 3. Ask powerful questions: - Prompt deeper thinking with thoughtful inquiries - Be genuinely curious about others' perspectives 4. Lead by example: - Share your own vulnerabilities - Demonstrate how to receive and act on feedback 5. Implement feedback loops: - Regularly seek input from your team - Show how their input influences decisions Your leadership impact multiplies when you listen. Cultivate a leadership style where listening is your superpower. Your team and organisation will thrive with open, honest communication. ♻️ Share to inspire other leaders to become better listeners. 🔔 Follow Luke Tobin for more insights on effective leadership and communication.
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Lately, there’s been a lot of criticism directed at management on LinkedIn. I firmly believe the best teams need a combination of energy and clarity. At the end of the day - Shit needs to get done! This means you need empowering leaders and clear managers to ensure the team thrives as a whole. The issue often lies in a lack of training, guidance, and examples of what best-in-class looks like. Here’s why a team needs great managers and empowering leaders Management: Persuasion and Direction 1. Clear Communication: Clearly articulate tasks and expectations. Ensure your team understands not just the "what" but the "why" behind their tasks. This builds a sense of purpose and clarity. 2. Structured Approach: Implement structured processes and timelines. Use project management tools to keep everyone on track. Regular check-ins help ensure progress and allow you to address issues promptly. 3. Incentives and Accountability: Establish a system of incentives for meeting goals and holding people accountable when they fall short. Recognition and rewards can motivate, while constructive feedback helps correct course. 4. Empathy and Support: Understand the challenges your team faces and provide the necessary support. This could be resources, training, or simply listening to their concerns. Leadership: Inspiration and Empowerment 1. Vision Casting: Share a compelling vision of the future. People are inspired when they see a bigger picture that they want to be a part of. Communicate this vision regularly and passionately. 2. Empowerment: Empower your team by delegating responsibilities and giving them the autonomy to make decisions. Trusting your team boosts their confidence and drives innovation. 3. Personal Development: Invest in the personal and professional growth of your team members. Encourage them to take on challenges that stretch their capabilities and provide opportunities for learning and advancement. 4. Lead by Example: Demonstrate the behaviors and attitudes you want to see. Your integrity, work ethic, and commitment will inspire others to follow suit. Bridging the Two 1. Balanced Approach: Balance management and leadership by being both directive and inspiring. Adapt your style based on the situation and individual needs. 2. Feedback Loop: Create a feedback loop where your team feels safe to express ideas and concerns. Act on this feedback to improve processes and show that their input is valued. 3. Cultural Alignment: Foster a culture that aligns with both management and leadership principles. Encourage teamwork, innovation, and a shared sense of purpose. 4. Continuous Improvement: Always look for ways to improve both your management and leadership skills. Attend workshops, read extensively, and seek mentorship. By effectively blending management and leadership, you can create a productive, motivated, and high-performing team.
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Most changemakers stall progress because we over-index on one trait: Boldness or Empathy. Very early in my career, I leaned heavily toward boldness — partly out of fear that work wouldn’t get done well. I pushed for higher standards. I intervened quickly when quality slipped. In one case, I escalated directly to a vendor’s Managing Director to address recurring performance gaps. My intention was improvement. But the team felt exposed. I had broken hierarchy. We finished the work — but it didn’t feel right. Most leadership friction happens because we over-index on one and neglect the other. My own experience and observations across industries formed a simple Boldness-Empathy model I now use when coaching cross-function teams: 1️⃣ Low Boldness / Low Empathy — The Bystander Avoids tension. Avoids progress. Lets mediocrity thrive. 2️⃣ High Boldness / Low Empathy — The Bulldozer Drives standards. Challenges norms. Damages trust. 3️⃣ Low Boldness / High Empathy — The Protector Over-relates to context. Preserves peace at the cost of progress. Struggles to execute change. 4️⃣ High Boldness / High Empathy — The Leader Sets high standards. Protects dignity. Challenges and cares at the same time. Boldness without empathy smacks like judgment. Empathy without boldness breeds hesitation. Sustainable change requires both — it’s the best way to mobilise people. Raise the bar. Respect the person. When I coach people facing logjams now, I ask two questions: • How clear are we about the standard? • How thoughtful are we about how it lands? The intersection is where influence lives.
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Early in my career, I landed my dream job… and immediately felt like an imposter. On day 3, my new colleague, Rina, spotted an error in my strategic plan. My first instinct? → Defend myself. → Prove I belonged. → Protect my ego. Instead, I swallowed my pride and said: “Walk me through how you’d approach it differently.” That single conversation unlocked solutions I’d never have seen alone. Six months later, we co-led a project that saved the company $1.4M. Not because I knew more than her, but because I learned this: ✅ Working with people smarter than you is a gift, not a threat. Most leaders get this wrong. They think leadership means being the authority in the room. They fear being overshadowed. They equate asking for help with weakness. But the highest-impact leaders I’ve coached share one trait: They’re fiercely coachable. → They seek out people who know more. → They treat differences as assets. → They let go of needing to be the hero. That’s how careers grow: not in certainty, but in curiosity. The C.H.O.I.C.E.® Framework makes it real: Courage → Ask, even when your ego screams “don’t.” Humility → Recognize brilliance in others. Openness → Let new ideas replace old assumptions. Integration → Apply what you learn fast. Curiosity → Keep asking “What else could be true?” Empathy → Celebrate others’ strengths, not compete. And celebrate yours too! Because the real test of leadership isn’t how much you know. It’s how much you’re willing to learn. 💭 Who’s the “smartest person” who made you better at your craft? ♻️ Tag someone who turns intelligence into collective wins. ➕ Follow Loren Rosario - Maldonado, PCC for human-centered career shifts.